Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Trip of a Lifetime

Three weeks ago, we departed for the trip of our lives. There are so many wonderful memories from our time in Africa, that I honestly don't know where to begin! I just want to share all of it with you...the sights, the sounds, the smells of Ethiopia...truly indescribable...but I will do my best. It is my hope to chronicle each day with a new post. So, let's start at the very beginning....
Sunday, July 18th - Monday, July 19th
Well, I thought the packing would NEVER end. I started the process at least one week in advance--days and nights-- and almost ran out of time. Packing for a four month-old for a week in a foreign country with totally different weather than summertime in North Carolina (it was "cold" and rainy in Ethiopia...more on that later) is very, very difficult...especially when you've never packed for a baby before! Thanks to all of my friends with babies who answered my phone calls and questions such as, "How many outfits do I need per day?" and "How many bottles do you think I need?", etc. Between packing for Judah, Jeff, myself, and getting all of our humanitarian aid items together, I thought it was an impossible task. But with the help of Gran'ma, Jeff and I got it done and this was the end result.

Our flight departed on a Sunday afternoon, and I just remember feeling giddy when I woke up that Sunday morning. I get terribly sentimental when leaving something behind or when saying good-bye. Although I knew we were coming back to our house, I also knew that it would be totally different with a new little member of the family moving in (in a good way, of course). Still, I closed the door with a tear especially when I said good-bye to Allie (our sweet little dog) because I knew my relationship with her wouldn't be quite the same when I returned. (Side note for all who are wondering: Allie is doing great with Judah now, but she totally ignored him for the first three days...very interesting, but we are thankful she came around. She even gives him kisses now!) Here is the moment I said good-bye to Allie.
 And obviously, the sentimental moment didn't last too long because look how happy we were to be heading out the door to the airport!
The feelings I had at the airport were an unfamiliar mix of excitement and peace....never really anxious or worried, which is totally unlike me! This is a testament to all of you who were praying for us. I love this picture (not staged, by the way) of me smiling and looking out the window at Dulles at our gigantic Ethiopian Airlines flight...that took us all the way to Addis Ababa nonstop.
Once on the plane, the excitement continued. I just couldn't believe that we would be meeting our son in one day...ahhh!!!
Jeff and I were fortunate enough to sleep many hours on the loonggggg flight from DC to Addis, but when we arrived over Africa I was awake enough to catch moments like this....
And I seriously thought I would jump out of my seat when I saw on the screen in front of us that the plane was over Addis and we were getting ready to land!

Welcome to Ethiopia!
This was taken right when we stepped off the plane at the airport in Addis. At this point, it was Monday evening (in Ethiopia). Crazy to think we started this trip Sunday morning, but we made it! We arrived at our guesthouse around midnight and between the two of us, we got very little sleep knowing that we would FINALLY meet our sweet angel the very next morning....

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Blessed

Hello again everyone! Our new family of three has been home for five days and things are going great! Thank you, thank you for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers during this time. We could have never imagined what a perfect angel Judah would be, and we could have never imagined the love we have for our little one. The transition back home has been surprisingly smooth. We are all getting great sleep (thanks to Jeff and I taking shifts), and it has been a tremendous joy to have this time with just the three of us. We've had a week filled with bath time, spit up, Moby wraps, poopie diapers, first visit to the doctor, washing bottles and boiling nipples, rocking to sleep, morning tummy time, evening strolls, few tears, and LOTS of smiles.
We are blessed.






Monday, July 26, 2010

Coming to America

It's Gran'ma again.  The time is here! The family of three is on the plane and headed to America.  Everything is ready here... Well, we do have a few balloons to fill with helium.  Tomorrow we will celebrate.  We are praying for a safe, easy flight. We can't wait for them to arrive tomorrow, July 27.  "What a day that will be!!" Mom and Dad are so excited to be bringing Judah home!  And the rest of us are somewhat "giddy" at this point. 

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Our Hearts are Singing!

Gran'ma is posting today for Mom and Dad who are still in Ethiopia with our grandson.  The joy I could hear in the voices of Jeff and Virginia was only surpassed by my first conversation with Baby Judah. I could never have imagined that I would get to hear him gleefully laughing and babbling so soon.  He is, by all accounts, such a good baby. He eats and sleeps well and enjoys interacting with Mom and Dad.  Jeff and Virginia have visited the children at the Gladney Houses (and will be sending photos soon). In addition, they visited the state-run orphanages where the needs are great.  They have Judah's visa and passport. "All things are ready" for the journey home next week. We are so blessed to have Judah join our family. One of our favorite songs is a song of praise to God that expresses our inability to describe the great love and adoration we have for our heavenly father. It has a line that paraphrased says, "Words cannot express...so listen to our hearts." That describes our love for this child and for the God who has led us to this point in our journey.  Mom and Dad sent these pictures of our precious Judah Wells Nix.  "Judah, listen to our hearts and feel the love!"

Monday, July 19, 2010

Destination Ethiopia

We left our North Carolina home and our little Westie Allie shortly after 10:00 a.m. on July 18.  We are now working our way through customs in Ethiopia.  We are safe after the long flight.  We know that God will continue to be with us as we await our introduction to our beautiful baby boy.  We are half-way around this wonderful world ready for our "big dream" to be real.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Leaving on a Jet Plane









                dream big. 
That's exactly what we did 8 years ago when we had a conversation about adopting before we were married. We knew the day would come... and  today is the day. Bags are packed, home is (somewhat) in order, and nursery is ready...yet the reality still feels somewhat like a dream. People keep telling us we don't know how much our life is about to change. This is true. And because we know this is true, we've been intentionally spending extra quality time together as a couple...to remember, to celebrate, and to keep dreaming. I LOVE the almost 10 years we've had together as just us, and in some ways I don't want that to change. However, the words of my ever-so-positive husband  keep ringing in my ear..."Judah will make us even better. Our love will grow even deeper...for him, for each other, for the world, and for God. Trust me, we'll like ourselves better as parents...we're ready for this." Man, I love my husband....and I love that God has brought us to this place. We are humbled by His blessings and that He has asked us to care for His own.

"I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you." John 14:18
We are coming for you, sweet Judah!

Thanks to everyone who has, is, and will continue to pray for us. We leave today and return to the states July 27th. We ask that you pray for safe travels, good health, lots of smiles, and that God would reveal Himself more to us while in Ethiopia. We'll try to update the blog while we're there, but we can't guarantee. Blessings and many thanks!

Friday, July 9, 2010

Showered!

Well, it's the beginning of the rainy season in Ethiopia, but I can certainly feel the downpour (of love!) here in the States! In fact, we are overwhelmed with gratitude from all of the celebrations of Judah's life and our journey into parenthood. Check out all of the festivities that occurred in North Carolina and Alabama during the month of June...

McLeansville, North Carolina 
One of the elementary schools where I'm a psychologist-
What a sweet staff and such a special day!


Greensboro, North Carolina 
Celebrated with wonderful friends and co-workers

Given by the best of friends~Barbara, Susan, and Amy (not in attendance due to her baby being born just 2 days before :-)

The amazing setting of Susan's back yard

Yep, everyone got a safari silly band!

Checking out the delicious food

The awesome lion cake that Jennilee created! 

Opening gifts!

Suiting up for tie-dying! Look behind us at all of the tie-dyed onesies, bibs, and burpcloths that the guests made.  Judah is going to be the cutest hippie in town :-)

Chapel Hill, North Carolina
Celebrated with wonderful friends 
Hosted by these lovely ladies from our church, Jan and Holly

Beautiful table and flowers created by a local florist from Africa

Guests intensely playing the "Name the Baby Animal" game

Practicing with Baby Wyatt...he weighs the same as Judah :-) 

Check out this amazing diaper cake made by my dear friend Kate, another hostess

And look what Jeff got for carrying all of the diapers and accessories...a "dude diaper bag!"

Birmingham, Alabama
Celebrated with more incredible friends from back home

Hosted by my besties, Rachel, Nancy, and Brooke

More amazing decor and food!

Nancy painted this adorable lion with surrounding lyrics from one of my favorite songs for Judah

Photo display of our adoption process

Sunglasses for Judah, just like mommy!

Adorable gift from Auntie Stacey :-)

Beautiful day with beautiful friends!

Sylacauga, Alabama
My hometown, given by my mom and her friends at my parents' beautiful home...what a special day!

Beautiful table!

Check out this cake!



So grateful my Mammaw (Judah's Great Grandmother) got to come!

Sweet friends from high school

Amazed by all of the gifts!

Nieces helping me open them!

Best gift of all...a baby quilt made by Granny Cunningham (Judah's Great-Grandmother)
Delivered by Judah's Gran'ma and Aunt Vickie, who drove from Kentucky to attend


Thank you to everyone who has celebrated with us!
We are truly grateful!