Tuesday, August 25, 2009

The Chase is Over


Our US CIS approval letter came today!!! I was initially bummed when I checked the mail and went through all of the official-looking letter size envelopes (mostly bills...imagine that!). I didn't think there was any way the manila envelope with a handwritten address was our approval letter. But when I saw the return address, I did a little dance in my driveway! Amazing how something so huge, so life-changing, is contingent upon this one single piece of paper.
People in the adoption world call this first phase in the process the "paper chase." Quite clever, because that's truly what we've felt like we've been doing for the past 4 months! Our dossier should be in Ethiopia in no time, which means we will officially be on the wait list for our referral~the phone call/email that will introduce us to our baby!

Monday, August 24, 2009

I Just Call You Mine

Last week I heard Martina McBride's newest release, "I Just Call You Mine" for the first time. What an incredible love song.... for my husband as well as for our unborn child who is already blessing our family and so many others. I guess no explanation is needed as to why the tears flowed like a river...

"Everyone that sees you always wants to know you.
And everyone that knows you always has a smile.

You're a standing ovation, the dream that I've been chasing
After years of waiting
for a chance to finally shine
Everyone calls you amazing...
I just call you mine
."

Monday, August 17, 2009

My Little Watchdog

Hey Mom, Want me to help you watch for the FedEx truck?


Maybe today is the day we get CIS approval!


Come on already, one step closer to Baby E!


I'm getting tired!


I give up...maybe tomorrow?


Wednesday, August 12, 2009

My Husband Rocks!

Look what my husband surprised me with! This necklace, "Hands for Africa," was custom-made and hand-crafted by Tracy Hanson who has a great space on Etsy. She creates all sorts of jewelry with adoption themes, and in doing a little research, it looks like she is getting ready to have a grandchild from Ethiopia! The necklaces are all beautiful, and a percentage of the purchase for this particular necklace goes to a family currently adopting from Ethiopia to help with travel expenses....a family who happens to be one of my favorite in the "blogging world!"
I couldn't get a good close-up picture of it with my camera, but it is covered with tiny handprints. I love wearing it, as it reminds me of all of the orphans in Africa, as well as my baby. I love that is close to my heart, literally. It is also a good "conversational piece." A few weeks ago, a TSA worker at the Louisville airport stopped me and pointed at my necklace. While I thought she was just going to make me go back through security again, she instead told me that she is adopting from Ethiopia and getting ready to travel there! She pulled a picture from her wallet of her baby boy. Such a proud mamma...so am I!

***Update on adoption progress because people have been asking- We are still waiting on the same ONE document from Immigration Services before our dossier can be sent to Ethiopia. Everything else is ready and waiting to go! It should literally be here any day now, so I've been stalking our postman, along with every FedEx truck that rolls down our street!***

p.s. I added two more blog links to the top left that I think you will find very inspirational. These families are in different stages of the process, but I frequent them both for encouragement.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Dear Baby E

To our precious child,
Your father and I have been thinking about you so much lately. I've been having strong feelings for the past two weeks that you have recently been conceived. I have been praying especially for your birth mother, and I know that others reading this will pray along with me. I thank her so much for the life she will give to us, but my heart already grieves for her loss. I pray that she is surrounded by people who love and support her. Our God promises us that He ["created our inmost being and knit us together in our mother's wombs"] (Psalm 139:13). Although you are not in my womb, you are certainly in my heart each and every day.
Love, Mommy

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

It's a Small World After All

Wow! Within the past several weeks, I have been amazed at the "Ethiopian connections" Jeff and I have made...so amazed that I wanted to share:

My best friend, Nancy, is a pre-school director and she knows a sweet family who is in the process of adopting from Ethiopia. Looking forward to connecting with them.

Another dear college friend, Ali, has a family friend who has recently adopted a beautiful baby boy from Ethiopia. I can't wait to connect with them, too! Check out their story here.

Yet another college friend, Steph...her good friend's neighbor has adopted from Ethiopia.

Family friends of Jeff's parents in Murray are adopting from Ethiopia. We're working on getting in touch with them.

A dear friend, Kristen, has friends who have a beautiful Ethiopian son, Jonah. Thank you, Kristen, for passing along their contact information.

Heard that someone else I know from college has a beautiful baby boy from Ethiopia...I will find you, Suzanne!

My dear friend, Stacey in Nashville, has a girl in her Bible Study who is adopting from Ethiopia. Read about their journey here.

Also got word of yet another neat connection (thanks Ellen!). The summer of 2001, I met an amazing girl, Amy, while spending time in Florida with Campus Crusade for Christ (she was actually my roommate :-). I remember meeting Amy's sister (Laura) that summer one crazy night when we drove several hours to her parents' beach condo. What an amazing family! 8 years later, I am meeting Laura (Amy's sister) again, this time through her blog--yes, she and her husband are adopting from Ethiopia. If you do nothing else, check out their story here. What an incredible story of faith.

Sweet friends from church, Michael and Ashley, told us about their friends who have recently moved to Ethiopia! to live and work for the next two years. What they are doing there is incredibly awesome. How neat to see what life is truly like there. Check it out.

And the coolest yet...Most of you know that much of my job consists of working with students who may be having difficulties/challenges at school, then meeting with their parents, teachers, administrators, etc., to assist with a plan to help them succeed. I see almost 100 children each school year. All are so special to me, but a few are unforgettable....At the end of this past school year, when Jeff and I were officially embarking on this journey, I began working with a girl who had recently moved from Africa (what are the chances?!...just wait). She had many challenges but none could deny the sparkle in her eyes and the love that she gave. This little girl taught so much to everyone at our school. She did not move here directly from Ethiopia but as I was reviewing her file, I came across her birth certificate and sure enough, she was born in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia! Fortunately, I was able to meet her sweet Ethiopian mother through this process. We laughed together. We cried together. Amazing how we connected, even with the communication barrier. Speaking of communication...at one of the meetings, the mom brought a friend who could help interpret for her (a professor at a local college). This lady was also incredibly kind...and Ethiopian! The entire meeting was spoken in English and Amharic (Ethiopia's primary language!). It was so beautiful! And just that very week before the meeting, Jeff and I were discussing our hope to find someone nearby who can help our family (especially Baby E) learn some Amharic. Looking forward to connecting with this sweet family (and professor) again this fall!

Yes, we are so grateful for these connections and I can't help but be reminded of a song from one of my favorite rides at Disney:
"It's a world of laughter, a world of tears;
It's a world of hopes and a world of fears;
There's so much that we share,
That it's time we're aware
It's a small world after all!"


Thursday, July 9, 2009

Meet Jackson


Hi! My name is Jackson and as you can see, I was adopted by Kim Windsor (Ginger's mom and Baby E's grandmother). Mrs. Kim (actually, I call her KK like the other grandchildren) is on the Board of Directors of The Exchange Club Family Skills Center located in Birmingham, Alabama. About one year ago, this wonderful organization held a silent auction where bears like me could be adopted. At that time, KK knew that adoption was definitely on the hearts and minds of Ginger and Jeff. KK thought that she would adopt a bear that would one day be in the arms of her adopted grandchild. My bear friends were all adorable and dressed in all sorts of attire, but I suppose KK chose me because I aspire to be a doctor, just like Jeff (KK's son-in-law and Baby E's father). I secretly lived at KK's house for many months (don't worry, she took good care of me!). When Ginger and Jeff told KK they were adopting, I was given to them as their first gift. Since then, Ginger and Jeff have told me all about their journey to their baby and I cannot wait to meet Baby E! Jeff also has given me several tips on how to become a doctor, but I'm beginning to wonder if I want to go to school for that long and work those long hours! For now, I am just enjoying hanging out in Baby E's room and anxiously awaiting the arrival of him/her. The coolest thing is that I get to listen when Baby E's mom and dad come into the room, get down on their knees, and pray for Baby E. Baby E, I know that God is watching over you.